3.
a. You stay and fight. (Go to 4)
b. You feel strongly that your family is no more deserving than all of those other families in trouble, so you leave your wife and kids at home and walk 300km to the nearest administrative office where you line up to fill in paperwork applying to exit the country so that you can enter a safe one through the proper channels. Then you bunker down and prepare to wait until your turn comes up. (Go to 5)
c. You gather together and sell everything you have, and pay everything to someone who says they can get you and your family out. (Go to 6)